what we do
It says that you provide “relationship coaching and online dating consultation”. What does that mean?
In a nutshell, we work with individuals, 1:1, to help them figure out how to date and be in relationships more successfully. We do this through coaching and consultation.
Coaching is solution focused - identifying blocks and working to overcome them.
Consultation is advisory - in this context we review online dating profiles, matches and texts to get our clients on good first dates!
Becoming better at dating and relationships is possible, but in order to do so, it’s critical to identify where blocks are coming up. We break the process of dating into four stages so that we can hone in on specific areas to achieve efficient and timely results.
What are the Four Stages of Dating?
The Four Stages of Dating are:
Stage 1: is all about developing your unique approach to dating! We focus on starting with who you are and what you need, then identify what your ideal relationship looks like, and finally define what you are looking for in a partner.
Stage 2: we take a closer look at how you’re meeting people, who you are selecting to meet, and how to get on a good first date. For most, this involves online dating. We take all the stuff from Stage 1 and translate it into your dating profile. We also cover swiping, matching and effective communication.
Stage 3: we focus on dates 1-3. Are you showing up as your authentic self? Are you in the right mindset? The first few dates with a new person provide a chance to explore the connection between you, and we help you develop your own framework to do so!
Stage 4: we focus on helping you navigate the early stages of a relationship and beyond. When you find yourself in the weird space between dating and a relationship, what do you do? If you’re really into it and want to know where it’s going, how do you ask or communicate your needs? And if you’re having doubts, how do you address those nagging questions and figure out if it’s the right relationship for you?
Do I have to do all four stages?
The stage or stage(s) you focus on depend on your needs. People either choose to complete all Four Stages or hone in on one or two stages, depending on where they are feeling stuck.
For example: if you are new to the dating world, you can start at the very beginning. If you have dated quite a bit, but don’t feel like you’re meeting the right people, you can focus on Stage Two. For those who have met and need help transitioning to a relationship, you focus on Stage Four.
Do you also offer classes or workshops?
Yes! We offer workshops covering each of the Four Stages. We even let you bring a friend for free! The more the merrier.
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Is this a dating app?
No, today’s dating apps and online dating sites are great!
Our approach presents a new way to use the current platforms to find the relationship you want.
Is this matchmaking?
No, we are not matchmakers and we will not set you up.
We give you the tools to better identify the type of match you’re looking for and navigate obstacles that may arise in your relationship.
Does the process involve fashion / health advice?
While dramatic makeovers do wonders in the movies, we believe that you should start with who you are today.
There’s nothing wrong with your hair, make-up or clothing.
You don’t need to reinvent yourself for the sake of a good date.
We want to celebrate who you are right now and make sure you’re putting your best self forward.
Who do you work with?
Whether you’re a seasoned dater, just out of a relationship or trying out online dating for the first time, you can benefit from our program.
We work across gender lines and with adults of all ages.
Our approach is tailored to your specific situation with the goal of empowering you to make the best decisions for yourself.
Do you work with people outside of NYC?
Yes. Using Skype, Zoom or other video call apps, we work with clients across the country.
If I go through your program, can you guarantee that I will find the love of my life?
Nobody can guarantee love, but our work together will help you develop a more effective and successful process to find love.
Our aim is to empower you to date on your own terms and according to your own rules! We work closely with you to ensure that you’re growing, learning and feeling more confident about how you’re dating.
How do I get started?
Just contact us to schedule your free consultation call.
Let’s get you out there and on some good first dates!